• ISBN13: 9780345475749
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• Notes: Brand New from Publisher. No Remainder Mark.

Product Description
Comprehensive, fresh, and funny, Gay and Lesbian Weddings covers everything you need to know to plan the wedding of your dreams. Unlike other wedding planners, this one tackles the issues your heterosexual friends never had to consider. For instance, do you come out to Aunt Gloria before she receives the invitation and the shock of her life? Which father of the bride pays for a lesbian wedding? Who walks down the aisle first? Is it possible for members of the… More >>

Gay and Lesbian Weddings: Planning the Perfect Same-Sex Ceremony

5 Responses

1. Amy Casey

   December 25, 2009 at 9:59 pm

   I had the opportunity to hear David Toussaint speak on his book. He was amaizng!
   Rating: 5 / 5

2. A Reader

   December 25, 2009 at 11:56 pm

   “If you’re looking to tie the knot (so long as it’s not around your partner’s neck) this is the book for you.”
   
   -Rita Mae Brown, author of Rubyfruit Jungle

   “I’m recommending GAY AND LESBIAN WEDDINGS to all of my friends…especially the straight ones!”
   
   -Dinah Manoff, director, writer, and actress

   “Thank goodness I don’t have to consult Amy Vanderbilt anymore!”
   
   -Phranc, all-American Jewish lesbian folksinger

   “After a battery of publications in the past year that explore the serious questions of gay marriage…comes this fun, practical how-to guide…with answers to nagging questions like, ‘What do men toss?’ and “Which family pays?’” — Time Out New York

   “I’d recommend this book to all couples thinking about getting married, whether you’re gay or straight. This is a great general wedding book.” Mark Lynch, WICN-FM

   “The author made history when Bride’s magazine published his article about same-sex weddings. The event was covered by The New York Times and The Washington Post. Toussaint now, with co-author Heather Leo, offers this book to help couples plan their special but far from conventional ceremony. The authors cover basics that any couple, regardless of gender, needs to consider in order to make the whole affair go smoothly. There’s advice on setting and working within your budget and making those difficult decisions like whether you should use plastic forks so you can afford floral centerpieces (authors say “no”). A clear-eyed discussion on working together as a team, a detailed task list, and a calendar countdown provide a steady foundation during hectic days. But this book also addresses issues of more particular interest such as coping with homophobia from friends and relatives and navigating laws relating to same-sex unions. Gay-friendly honeymoon spots are also discussed. This affirming guide helps couples create an experience to reflect their unique relationship.” -Lesbian & Gay Pink Pages

   Escape to the Martha Stewart-esque land of Gay and Lesbian Weddings.” — Frontiers Magazine

   “Gay and Lesbian Weddings may just be the only planner you’ll ever need! From announcements to invitations, to caterers and honeymooning with your honey, Toussaint and Leo cover it all and everything in between.” — Out Smart Magazine
   
   Rating: 5 / 5

3. Jennifer Barthe

   December 26, 2009 at 1:39 am

   Note: This is an edit of my original review.

   Even though I’m not getting married until 2077, well let’s hope a lot earlier than that, I found the book to be as funny as a David Sedaris paperback. I warn you, my review is unorthodox.

   It’s a shame this book rubs some people the wrong way, but overall it’s quite good. We should all refrain from stereotyping what the perfect wedding or wedding attire should be.

   Other than that, the book is quite good. I know of a couple that used it for their wedding in 2008 and they were quite pleased. Personally, I don’t know when I’ll use the book for myself. Right now, it’s a great addition to my library, and I’m satisfied with that.
   Rating: 5 / 5

4. geobandito

   December 26, 2009 at 3:31 am

   What’s up with all these “reviews” that are just quotes from others? And all glowing, and all from reviewers in New York?

   The book had a lot of good points, but it’s certainly not a thorough handbook for wedding planning. I think I was giving the book the benefit of the doubt until the section on ethnic weddings. What a joke. If you’re Mexican, how about a mariachi band and a pinata! Yeah! If you’re “ethnic” enough to represent it in your wedding, you’ll probably be able to do a better job than to follow these ridiculously simpleton and stereotypical suggestions.
   Rating: 3 / 5

5. Needed Guidance

   December 26, 2009 at 6:24 am

   This book is very practical and incuded more than expected. Legal issues, adopting, all good information to keep in mind. And the real-life stories are used well. Great book!
   Rating: 5 / 5

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